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Women’s Urinary Incontinence: Better Get Mad Not Sad

angry womanIf you suffer from women’s urinary incontinence, chances are that you will experience one of two emotions about your situation: you’ll be mad or you’ll be sad.

Well guess what? It’s better to be mad rather than sad.

Why Being Mad is Better than Being Sad
When it comes to women’s urinary incontinence, you are far better to get angry about your situation than to feel sad or depressed. Why? Because studies show that women who feel sad or depressed about their situation are less likely to seek help.

In addition, women who are sad or depressed are more likely to:

•Overeat, which only contributes to urine leakage
•Abuse alcohol or sedatives, both of which dull the senses and can interfere with the awareness of the need to urinate
•Lack the incentive to get up and go to the bathroom

While getting angry isn’t necessarily the healthiest emotional response, anger is a more active emotional response. The woman who is angry or frustrated enough about her urine leakage is more likely to pick up the phone and make an appointment with her doctor to get help.

The Bottom Line about Urinary Incontinence
The bottom line, literally, is that when it comes to urine leakage and wet panties, you are far better served if you get mad about your situation than if you just feel sad. Sadness and depression are stagnant emotions, and tend to keep you stuck in the status quo.

If you feel sad or depressed about your urinary incontinence, then stop it. Get mad instead! Think about all the parts of your life that you are missing out on because of your urine leakage problem. Think about all the social situations you no longer attend, all the friends you no longer see, and all the sex you might be missing out on.

Then get mad … and get help! Here are some tips to help you choose the right doctor, prepare for your visit, and use the right words at your appointment:

Find the Right Doctor
3 Steps to Prepare for Your Doctor’s Visit
Use the Right Words at Your Appointment

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Is Your Chronic Uncertainty about Urinary Incontinence Causing You Stress?

Frustrated Caucasian WomanAccording to a recent webinar co-sponsored by the American Urological Association, chronic uncertainty is one of the major forms of stress in today’s culture. More importantly, the chronic uncertainty associated with urinary incontinence can cause women to feel levels of stress similar to that felt by people suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSS). That’s a lot of stress!

What Women with Urinary Incontinence Stress About
Women coping with symptoms of urinary incontinence tend to stress about numerous issues on a daily basis, most of them dealing with uncertainty. They wonder if they:

-smell like urine
-will have an embarrassing accident and leak urine while in public or during sex
-can make it to the bathroom before an accident
-can find enough bathrooms at work
-will be able to get up the courage to ask for help
-will be able to afford adult diapers and other medical aids
-will ever find a cure for their urine leakage symptoms

… and that’s just a short list of worries that can cause a woman to feel chronic uncertainty.

The Stress of Chronic Uncertainty in Urinary Incontinence
The first few times they experience urine leakage, most women feel worry and embarrassment. When the symptoms of urinary incontinence don’t go away, but linger or even get worse, many women begin experiencing chronic uncertainty.

The stress of this uncertainty becomes a factor of everyday life, not just an occasional worry that pops up from time to time. In fact, this kind of stress can have such a strong effect that many medical organizations have recently started recognizing this kind of chronic uncertainty as a “health-related quality of life factor,” and begun using it as a factor in making policy decisions.

Are You Stressing Unnecessarily?
The worst thing about the stress associated with urinary incontinence is that it is usually unnecessary. There are many new and innovative therapies available today for women suffering from urine leakage, and the success rates of these therapies are very high.

So ask yourself what is worse: the daily stress you suffer from dealing with the uncertainty of urinary incontinence, or the possible embarrassment of seeking help from a health practitioner?

Avoid Chronic Stress and Get Help for Urinary Incontinence
Life is stressful enough without having to deal with urinary incontinence on a daily basis. Learn how women are successfully alleviating and curing their symptoms of urinary incontinence by reading these short stories:

Is This You? http://www.awomansguidetopelvichealth.com/is-this-you/

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Urinary Incontinence – 3 Steps to Prepare for Your Doctor’s Appointment

The big day is just around the corner: your doctor’s appointment to evaluate and discuss treatment options for your urinary incontinence. Now that you have actually worked up the nerve to make the appointment, a little preparatory work will ensure that you walk away from your appointment with the solutions you seek.

Preparing for your appointment doesn’t have to be complicated, but you should take the time to do so. Good preparation leads to good communication during the appointment. Your doctor gets all the information he or she needs to accurately evaluate your condition. You get answers to your questions and can explore your treatment options. You can prepare for your appointment in three easy steps.

Step 1: Observe Your Symptoms
If you have been dealing with symptoms of urinary incontinence, this may seem odd, since no doubt you are quite familiar with your symptoms. However, your doctor will probably ask you some very specific questions, so you will need to observe your symptoms closely for a few days, and jot down some notes. In fact, some healthcare providers even ask their patients, when they schedule their appointment, to keep a voiding diary prior to the appointment.

Keeping a voiding diary is a good idea whether your doctor’s office requests it or not, and will help your doctor assess your situation more accurately. To keep a voiding diary, simply keep track of the following for a few days:

-when, how much, and what kinds of fluids you drink
-when and how many times you urinate during the day
-how many times a day you experience leakage, how much you leak, and under what conditions (such as coughing or sneezing, or during the night)

Also jot down any other health issues you experience, even if you think they are not related to your urinary incontinence.

Step 2: Make Your List
In addition to keeping a voiding diary, jot down a list of supplements and medications you are taking, and write a list of questions you have for your doctor. The list will come in handy during your appointment and remind you to ask all of your questions. For urinary incontinence, you may wish to ask your doctor the following:

-what kind of urinary incontinence you have (stress, urge, mixed, or pelvic organ prolapse)
-whether your urinary incontinence symptoms can be improved or cured
-what kinds of tests you might need to assess your situation
-whether lifestyle changes or diet modification might help
-what kinds of conservative therapies might improve your symptoms
-whether your medications could be aggravating your condition
-whether there are medications that would help your condition
-whether surgery is necessary

Step 3: Gather Your Stuff and Prepare Yourself
On the day of your appointment, gather up all of your “stuff.” You’ll want to take your voiding diary, your list of questions, as well as a notepad and pen so you can write down important information during your appointment. If you were not able to list all of the medications and supplements you are taking in the step above, simply gather all the bottles and pills into a bag and bring them with you to your appointment. If you have difficulty seeing or hearing, be sure to bring your glasses or hearing aids.

You may also want to ask a close friend or family member to come with you to your appointment. Your companion can help you remember to ask all of your questions, and remember important information. Finally, your doctor may want to do a pelvic exam, especially if you have scheduled an appointment with a urologist or urogynecologist, so you may want to take special care with your personal hygiene before your appointment.

Then, having thoroughly prepared yourself for your appointment, you are ready to fully explore the many available treatment options for solving your urinary incontinence issues.

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Got Questions About Urinary Urgency, Frequency, or Leakage? We’ve Got Answers

If you are a woman with symptoms of urinary urgency, frequency, or leakage, then you have women’s urinary incontinence. Chances are that you also have questions about your symptoms… and how to alleviate those symptoms.

Why is it that women with urinary incontinence have so many questions? Because at least 50% of women with urinary incontinence never seek medical help. Chances are strong that those women have questions.

Whether or not you have sought medical help for your condition (and we strongly suggest that you do), if you have questions about your urinary incontinence, we have discreet online resources for you… and answers to your questions!

Online Resources and Answers for Women’s Urinary Incontinence
Knowledge is power, and we applaud all women who want to learn more about their urinary incontinence symptoms. While your healthcare provider can be one of your best allies and sources of information, you can also learn a great deal about your condition by reading and watching online resources. Here are some great discreet online resources on women’s urinary incontinence:

Online Resource for Women’s Urinary Incontinence
Downloadable Ebook
Educational Blog
YouTube Channel

Specific Answers for Specific Questions
If you don’t find the answers you seek about your urinary urgency, leakage, or frequency, feel free to ask us. We have years of experience helping women cope with and alleviate their symptoms of urinary incontinence, and we love to help. If you have questions, feel free to ask via our online social media forums. We check these forums regularly, and answer questions:

Facebook
Twitter

If you are a woman who has successfully alleviated symptoms of urinary incontinence, we invite you to visit these forums and share your knowledge and wisdom! There are thousands of women who can and will benefit from your experience… so please do share!

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Women’s Urinary Incontinence: How to Cope with Medication Side Effects

Medication is one of the foremost conservative therapies for treating women’s urinary incontinence, and yet the number of women who will actually take–and keep taking–medication for their urinary incontinence is shockingly low. Many women will start on medication but fail to continue taking it.

This is surprising since medication has been shown to be an effective form of therapy for women’s urinary incontinence. For instance, in cases of urinary urgency, antimuscarinic medication is effective in reducing wetting accidents by about two-thirds. That is quite a high rate of success for a conservative therapy!

So why don’t more women keep taking medication for their urinary incontinence? Two reasons: lack of initial effectiveness and side effects.

Why Medication Doesn’t Always “Work” for Women’s Urinary  Incontinence
The first and most immediate reason women fail to keep taking medication for their urinary incontinence is because they feel that the medication “doesn’t work.” It turns out that these women are somewhat justified in their feelings. For most women with urinary incontinence, medication can often significantly improve symptoms, but most often will not completely “cure” urinary leakage. Most women will experience a significant reduction of urinary leakage accidents, but only when the appropriate medication is taken.

If you have decided to work with your doctor to find a medication to alleviate your urinary incontinence symptoms, know that the first–or even second–type of medication you try may not prove immediately effective. You and your doctor may need to experiment with a number of different medications before you find one that produces noticeable reductions in your urinary leakage and urinary urgency symptoms. Knowing this ahead of time will allow you to be patient during the “trial and error” process.

In addition, since medication alone does not usually produce a strong enough effect, you may work with your doctor to create a customized conservative therapy plan that combines a number of types of therapy. For instance, many women find success in combining medication with weight loss, pelvic floor retraining, bladder retraining, and/or diet modification. Be patient … and persevere!

Coping with the Side Effects of Medication for Women’s Urinary Incontinence
The second reason that women stop taking medications for urinary incontinence, even if the medications prove effective, is because the side effects outweigh the benefits. The most common side effects from medications prescribed for women’s urinary incontinence include:

  • dry mouth
  • drowsiness
  • skin irritation from gels or patches

Dry mouth is the most common side effect from these medications. Fortunately, with a little planning you can alleviate this side effect. Try sucking on sugar free candies, rinsing your mouth, chewing sugar-free gum, or taking small sips of water to lessen the feeling of dryness. You can also try spraying your mouth with over-the-counter forms of “artificial saliva.” Do not drink a large amount of water, as this may worsen your urinary incontinence symptoms.

With medications that cause drowsiness, try taking your medication dose at night. The medication will help you sleep, and may actually decrease nighttime urinary urgency (nocturia). If you experience skin irritation with patches and gels, try changing the location where the patch or gel is applied. If all else fails, change to the oral form of the medication.

By knowing and planning for the side effects of medication, you can actually prevent most side effects–or at least alleviate them enough so that the medication can be effective without becoming an irritant. As always, work with your doctor. Don’t be afraid to raise the issue of side effects, ask questions about prescribed medications, or ask for a different medication if your current medication isn’t working as well as you would like. Your doctor can’t help you unless he or she knows what is working for you and what isn’t. Be your own best health advocate and keep working with conservative therapies until you find a “recipe” that is right for you and your urinary incontinence symptoms!

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Women’s Urinary Incontinence: The Power of Educating Yourself

The old adage tells us that “knowledge is power.” When it comes to women’s urinary incontinence, knowledge is more than power … knowledge can be the difference between feeling insecure and isolated, and being your own best healthcare advocate.

Whether or not you have sought help from your doctor for your women’s urinary incontinence, the more you educate yourself about your condition, the more confident you will feel about your body, your life, and your ability to successfully cope with your symptoms. If the embarrassment of discussing your urinary incontinence is just too much for you to deal with at the moment, don’t worry. There are plenty of ways you can educate yourself about women’s urinary incontinence without ever leaving your home. Consider these easily-available resources you can use to learn as much as possible about urinary urgency, frequency, leakage, and other symptoms of urinary incontinence.

A Woman’s Guide to Pelvic Health
We wrote this book for the exact purpose discussed above–so that women could educate themselves about pelvic health (including urinary incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse). This guide book not only outlines the major issues and symptoms related to various women’s pelvic health conditions, but also details a complete at-home pelvic floor rehabilitation program. In addition, the book outlines a wide variety of conservative therapies for these pelvic issues, as well as reviewing the various surgical options available. This complete guide is an educational gem for women who want to know more … but are kind of afraid to ask their doctors! Click HERE for more details.

Discreet Online Resources
If you are digitally-inclined, there are tons of online resources available that can educate you about women’s urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, and other pelvic health issues. A great place to get started is our Resources  page, which lists not only the informational resources we provide, but also the educational resources provided by a number of organizations dedicated to women’s health and women’s pelvic health.

Download the Ebook
For the do-it-yourself gal who wants to learn how to do a correct pelvic floor muscle contraction (of which the Kegel is one variety), we have a handy downloadable ebook that gives you the exact directions for doing just that! The ebook is available at no charge, and you can read it at your leisure. The information is easy to read and, at the same time, medically correct. Download the ebook HERE.

The Benefits of Educating Yourself
If you take the time to educate yourself about your pelvic health–and especially about women’s urinary incontinence and pelvic organ prolapse–you will be way ahead of other women on the knowledge curve. This knowledge can serve you well. For instance, being knowledgeable about your pelvic health gives you the ability to:

  • know what’s going on with your own body
  • become your own best health advocate
  • converse intelligently with your healthcare provider and make good decisions for yourself (when to use conservative approaches, when to consider surgery)
  • know when your treatment plans need to change because your physical condition has changed
  • help other women suffering in silence by sharing your knowledge and experience

Those are some pretty big benefits, not just for yourself but also for women who are not as courageous in educating themselves about pelvic health. Education empowers you to be a healthcare advocate for yourself as well as the other women in your life–be they sisters, mothers, daughters, grandmothers, aunts, or friends. So why not? Go for it! Educate yourself, help yourself, then reach out and help others!

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Coping with the Complications of Women’s Urinary Incontinence

Coping with the complications associated with women’s urinary incontinence can be, well, complicated. Worrying about symptoms such as urinary urgency, frequency, and leakage can affect many areas of your life, from your exercise regimen to your work life to your personal relationships. At the same time, many savvy women have discovered simple yet effective ways to cope with their symptoms.

Before we begin discussing practical steps you can take to cope with your urinary incontinence symptoms, we want to point out that the best and most effective action step you can take for this health condition is to first seek help from your doctor. “Coping” with urinary incontinence is not the same as treating or even curing your condition. While you may be perfectly able to cope with your symptoms with careful planning, wouldn’t your quality of life be so much better if you didn’t have to cope? What would your life look like if your symptoms were drastically reduced, or even eliminated? We urge you to give some thought to seeking help from your doctor, even if you feel embarrassed about doing so. Below are some articles that can help you with seeking help from your doctor:

Urinary Incontinence: 3 Steps to Prepare for Your Doctor’s Appointment
Women’s Urinary Incontinence: 5 Things You Should Know When Seeking Help

Women’s Urinary Incontinence: Coping with the Complications
Because urinary urgency or leakage can strike at any time during your day (or night), you will probably find that every area of your life is affected by this condition. That’s why we offer below links to articles filled with practical tips on how to cope with the complications of women’s urinary incontinence so that you can get on with your life!
7 Tips for Coping with Urine Leakage During Exercise

Do You Need a Note from Your Doctor? (to give to your boss)

Women’s Urinary Incontinence: Protecting Your Skin

When Women’s Urinary Incontinence Messes with Your Intimacy

Female Urinary Incontinence: Are You Afraid to Sit on Your Friend’s Couch?

 

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Is Your Women’s Urinary Incontinence Temporary?

Women’s urinary incontinence is more common than you may think. Studies indicate that at least 25% of women over age 25 have experienced urine leakage at least once. That’s a lot of women!

Let’s say that you’ve just experienced your first (or second) episode of urinary leakage. At that point, you might start to wonder whether the leakage episode was just a random and temporary event, or if urinary leakage is going to become a regular part of your life. Good question. After all, you can easily ignore an isolated incident of urine leakage–after all, who among us hasn’t tried to “hold our water” while we finish some important task? On the other hand, if urinary incontinence is here to stay in your life, then you need to take your condition much more seriously. The key is to discover whether your urinary incontinence is temporary or persistent.

Causes of Temporary Urinary Incontinence
There are multiple causes of temporary urinary incontinence, all of which are related to lifestyle habits. Read through the following list and see if any of these lifestyle habits are present in your life, and may be causing your urinary incontinence:

Bladder Irritants
Many foods and beverages can irritate your bladder. These include coffee and tea (with or without caffeine), caffeinated beverages, carbonated beverages, spicy foods, sugary foods and beverages, acidic foods (such as citrus foods), and artificial sweeteners.

Drinking Too Little or Too Much Water
Drinking a lot of water in a short period of time can cause your bladder to go into overdrive. At the same time, drinking too little water can cause your urine to become acidic, irritating the bladder and causing temporary urinary incontinence. To discover the appropriate amount of water for your body weight, read this article.

Alcohol
Like caffeinated beverages, alcohol acts as a diuretic, which can cause you to feel like you need to urinate urgently and frequently. To find out if alcohol could be causing your urinary incontinence on a temporary basis, significantly reduce or eliminate your intake of alcohol for a week or two. If you don’t have any leakage accidents during that time, alcohol could be one of your triggers for temporary urinary incontinence.

Medications
Some medications are also diuretics, just like alcohol or caffeinated beverages. Likely culprits include heart medications, sedatives, muscle relaxants, and blood pressure drugs. Check with your healthcare provider about whether any of your medications (both prescription and over-the-counter) might be causing your temporary urinary incontinence.

Do any of these lifestyle habits ring a bell for you? If so, you may only be experiencing temporary urinary incontinence. This is good news because this means that you can resolve your urinary leakage by simply eliminating any lifestyle habits that are causing your leakage!

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How Much Water Should You Drink if You Have Women’s Urinary Incontinence?

This blog is part 5 of an 11 article series of 11 New Year’s resolutions that actually work and WILL improve your pelvic health. Get the full list of all 11 New Year’s resolutions HERE.

Good question. The answer? It depends …

Many women with urinary incontinence think that they can decrease urinary leakage by severely cutting back on the amount of water they drink. Sadly, this doesn’t work. In fact, drastically reducing water intake can actually worsen symptoms of urinary incontinence. Drinking too little water leads to dehydration, which can worsen urinary incontinence symptoms for two reasons:

  1. lack of fluid concentrates the urine–this can irritate the bladder
  2. concentrated urine has a stronger odor, making leakage accidents more noticeable

So how much water should you drink to avoid worsening your symptoms? First, don’t operate under the misconception that drinking way less water will improve your urinary incontinence symptoms. Second, avoid drinking excessive amounts of water for the simple reason that “what goes in must come out.” If you already suffer from urinary incontinence, drinking too much water increases your chances of having a urinary leakage accident. Plus, you’ll find yourself perpetually in the bathroom!

How Much Water Should You Drink?
Many women with urinary incontinence are stuck between a rock and hard a place when it comes to the topic of water intake. They have to drink enough water to stay hydrated, yet they also have to avoid drinking too much water. What’s a woman to do?

The truth of the matter is that the “right” amount of water is going to be different for each woman. Most women with urinary incontinence find that their symptoms remain the same if they drink between six and eight cups of water daily. This amount of water keeps them hydrated while preventing too many trips to the bathroom.

If you are either underweight or overweight, you may need to adjust the amount of water you drink accordingly. A good rule of thumb is to drink water in ounces equal to half of your body weight. For instance, if you weigh 110 pounds, drink 55 ounces of water daily.

Another good rule of thumb is to drink enough water so that your urine is light yellow to clear. When it comes to how much water you should drink to avoid irritating your bladder, let the color of your urine be an indicator.

Try Timed Fluid Intake to Get Your Full Day’s Supply of Water
Some women drink the “right” amount of water for their body weight, but still find that their urinary incontinence symptoms are aggravated by their water intake. Timed fluid intake can help. Timed fluid intake simply means that you drink the majority of your water in the morning, and then gradually scale down your intake until about 6 pm. Stop drinking all fluids past 6 pm. This will prevent nocturia, or the urge to get up and urinate during the night, as well as leakage accidents at night. If you feel thirsty later in the day or at night, use sugar-free candies to keep your mouth moist.

It’s Not How Much But What You Drink That Matters
Women with urinary incontinence worry about the amount of water they should drink daily. But these same women often fail to think about what they drink besides water. While water hydrates the body and is actually healthy when taken in the right amounts, other fluids can worsen symptoms of urinary incontinence. Women with urinary leakage should avoid:

  • caffeine: stimulates and irritates the bladder, acts as a diuretic
  • alcohol: causes dehydration, reduces neurological control over the bladder
  • carbonated beverages: irritates the bladder, often also contains caffeine

Hopefully this article has helped you figure out how much water you should drink for you specific situation, as well as which fluids to avoid. In addition, drinking water at the right time of day can have a big impact on the severity of your urinary incontinence symptoms!

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Women’s Urinary Incontinence: What Does Your Heath Insurance Cover?

When you get that giant packet of coverage information in the mail from your health insurance company, do you roll your eyes and stuff the entire packet into the back of some file drawer? If so, then you are among the majority! While much of the information in the packet is important, wading through all of those pages when you need just one specific bit of information isn’t easy. In fact, tracking down coverage information can be downright frustrating!

But guess what? If you suffer from women’s urinary incontinence you may actually want to spend the time and effort to find out what your health insurance covers.

The High Cost of Women’s Urinary Incontinence
Did you know that a woman with urinary incontinence in the U.S. spends an average of more than $1,000 per year doing extra laundry and buying disposable pads or diapers? This number is only an estimate because women’s urinary incontinence tops the list as one of the “most embarrassing” topics women refuse to discuss with their doctors–or anyone else, for that matter! Other estimates put the figure as high as $1,500 per year. Plus, this figure doesn’t even include the cost of other products, such as special wipes, creams, deodorants, and plastic bags (for carrying around soiled clothing).

The fact of the matter is that most women with urinary incontinence have never sat down with their checkbook and calculator to total up the financial cost of “coping” with their condition on their own. They would be shocked if they did. In addition, few add up the social costs associated with this condition, which can include a shrinking social life, lack of exercise and sex, and the hyper-vigilance of looking for bathrooms all over town.

What Does Your Health Insurance Cover for Women’s Urinary Incontinence?
If you don’t know that answer to this question, and have been coping with your urinary incontinence on your own, the time is right to get some information from your health insurance company. If digging through all that paperwork seems like too much work (and it can be!) then simply pick up the phone and call your insurance company. Most companies are more than happy to look up the information you need. You might be surprised at how much coverage you actually have. Many insurance companies will cover some or all of the cost of:

  • absorbent pads or adult diapers
  • one or more appointments with your family doctor
  •  one or more appointments with specialists such as urologists or ob/gyns
  • medication for urinary incontinence
  •  medical tests associated with urinary incontinence
  • several visits to a physical therapist specializing in women’s pelvic health
  • catheters
  • surgeries for urinary incontinence or pelvic organ prolapse

That’s a pretty long list! If you have good health insurance coverage, there’s really no need for you to pay the entire cost of coping with your condition–that’s why you have insurance. However, for your insurance company to help you financially, you will almost certainly need to get a specific medical diagnosis of your condition from a healthcare practitioner approved by your insurance company. What a great excuse to call your doctor!

We know … talking about urinary incontinence with your doctor (or anyone else) can be embarrassing. But isn’t a little embarrassment worth it if you can get the financial and medical help you need to cope with, decrease, or even eliminate your symptoms of urinary incontinence? From the stories that we have heard from our women patients with urinary incontinence, the trade off is definitely worth it!

When it comes to getting help from your health insurance company and doctor for your women’s urinary incontinence, follow Nike’s slogan: “Just do it!”

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Women’s Pelvic Health: Not Sure What’s Up Down There?

For many women, anatomy “down there” in the pelvic region is a complete mystery. And when something goes wrong down there, these same women have no idea what’s happening … or what to do. If you resemble the women referred to in the last sentence, then here’s a quickie guide to help you get acquainted with your own pelvic anatomy, plus a peek at what might be happening down there.

A Quick Guide to Pelvic Anatomy – Video
http://youtu.be/K1WL6MIq5HA

A Quick Guide to the Female Urinary System – Video
http://youtu.be/aro36vaiWmA

Women’s Poor Pelvic Health: Are You Affected? – Video
http://youtu.be/JEz2JlExShc

3 Types of Women’s Urinary Incontinence – Video
http://youtu.be/UYr8xrvQ48Q

Pelvic Organ Prolapse
http://bit.ly/ZAIja4

Do You Have Decreased Sexual Sensation? – Video
http://youtu.be/Zh5_Bp3s35U

 

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Women’s Urinary Incontinence: 5 Things You Should Know When Seeking Help

If you suffer from women’s urinary incontinence and you have finally decided to seek help we applaud you! Why do we applaud? Because about half of all women with urinary incontinence never seek help, and thus never get a thorough and correct medical diagnosis. Plus, the women who do seek medical help wait, on average, almost seven years before doing so. That’s a long time to cope with symptoms of women’s urinary incontinence!

If you have decided to seek medical help for your urinary incontinence, you will be glad you did. Just know that the journey to relieving your symptoms is just that — a journey, not a pit stop. You may have to seek the care of more than one medical professional to get the help you need. To ease your journey, we have written five tips below. Hopefully these tips will help you get the medical support you need as quickly and efficiently as possible.

5 Things You Should Know …
If you have already scheduled an appointment with your family doctor or general practitioner to discuss your urinary incontinence, then you are a giant leap ahead of the affected women who never seek help. Bravo! Now that you have your appointment, here are 5 points of information to help you get the most out of your journey toward freedom from urinary incontinence.

Tip #1: Prepare for Your Appointment
Preparing for your first appointment will help you maximize the time you spend with your family doctor or general practitioner. Preparation is simple. A week before your appointment, begin observing and jotting down your symptoms, even if you know them by heart. Having a list of symptoms–including how many times per day you urinate, how much you urinate each time, how many times per week you have a leakage accident, how much urine you leak, triggers for urinary leakage, and when your symptoms began–will help you communicate quickly and clearly with your doctor. Also list all your current medications, and any other health issues you have, even if you feel they are unrelated to your urinary incontinence. Finally, if you are afraid that you might “chicken out” out the last minute and avoid talking about your urinary leakage issues, enlist the help of a good friend. Ask your friend to accompany you to your fist appointment and gently remind you (if necessary) about the reason for your visit if you somehow “forget”!

Tip #2: Prepare a List of Questions
As you can probably tell, lists are important in this process! Preparing a list of questions to ask doctor about your condition will help you get the answers you need about your condition. If you don’t know what to ask your doctor, check out this list as a “template” for making your own list.

Tip #3: Know What Your Doctor Will Ask You
In addition to asking your doctor the questions you want answered, you also need to be able to answer your doctor’s questions about your condition. For your doctor to be able to help you, you need to be able to discuss your condition honestly and without embarrassment. Knowing ahead of time the questions your doctor will likely ask you can help. Prepare for your appointment by scanning this list of potential questions.

Tip #4: Know That Your First Appointment Won’t Be Your Last
Your first appointment with your family doctor is just that — the first stop on your journey towards symptom relief. Chances are that your general practitioner can offer you some help with basics, such as reviewing your medications, medical history, and lifestyle habits for any triggers that may be causing your urinary leakage. For instance, some medications are diuretics and could be causing you to urinate much more frequently than normal. Chances are also good that your doctor will refer you to a specialist–probably a urologist–who will perform more specific tests to more thoroughly assess your condition. Taking the time to see the referred specialist is important because these specialists can often offer a wider range of therapies tailored specifically to your condition. If your first appointment merely leads to a referral, don’t be discouraged. A referral to a specialist is normal in the treatment protocol for treating women’s urinary incontinence, and should be regarded as progress on the journey!

Tip #5: Persist Until You are Satisfied
How do you know when your “journey” has come to an end? Simple. Your journey is complete when you are satisfied with your level of symptom relief–whether that means a major reduction in urinary leakage accidents or complete freedom from all symptoms. At the end of the day, the only one who can say whether the therapy for urinary incontinence is “good enough” is you. This means that you should not give up on seeking help until you are satisfied, even if that means combining multiple therapeutic approaches such as medication and minor surgery. In addition, you should know that your treatment choices may change with time. A conservative treatment like medication may relieve your symptoms for years, only to stop working at a certain point (such as when you reach menopause). Want to know more? Read about how your treatment options may change over time.

Armed with these 5 tips, you are now ready to embark on your journey to get the medical support you need for your women’s urinary incontinence. May the force of your persistence be with you until you are satisfied with your own health. After all, you are at the center of your own “patient-centered” healthcare model!

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The Doctor Is In: Women’s Pelvic Health, Fact or Fiction?

1. Urinary incontinence (an indicator of poor pelvic health) is a normal sign of aging.

Fiction: Urinary incontinence or leakage is not normal at any age. Acceptance of this health condition as a normal sign of aging is the second most common reason women don’t seek help from a physician. Embarrassment about talking to a doctor about urine leakage tops the list, followed by women thinking that urinary incontinence “wasn’t enough of a problem.” As a result, less than 50% of women with urinary incontinence seek medical help, and those who do get help wait almost seven years. The good news for women who do seek help is that urinary incontinence can be improved in 8 out of 10 cases according to the Agency of Healthcare Research and Policy.

2. Kegels and similar pelvic floor exercises can improve a woman’s pelvic health.

Fact: Studies show that pelvic floor exercises, when done correctly and according to a woman’s state of pelvic muscle fitness, can relieve symptoms of all three types of urinary incontinence (stress, overactive bladder/urge, and mixed), pelvic organ prolapse, decreased sexual sensation or response, and general pelvic floor weakness. Women often feel that pelvic floor exercises such as Kegels are ineffective because these women are not doing the exercises properly. In fact, studies show that almost 50% of women cannot do a correct pelvic floor muscle contraction with only basic written instructions for guidance. Incorrectly done, these muscle contractions are indeed ineffective and may even worsen some symptoms of poor pelvic health.

3. Conservative therapies for poor pelvic health (urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, and decreased sexual sensation) are not effective.

Fiction (with some fact): While it is true that not every conservative approach for relieving symptoms will work for every woman, it is also true that most women will be able to find relief with one or more of these approaches. Some women are able to reduce symptoms by using a combination of conservative therapies, such as taking medication plus stopping smoking and losing weight. Other women find success by trying multiple different therapies until they find an effective approach. Persistence is often the key to success. Some women, however, may have such an advanced condition (as with severe pelvic organ prolapse) that surgery is a better option. Research indicates that conservative therapies are more effective when used as soon as the first symptoms occur.

4. Childbirth does not put women at risk for poor pelvic health.

Fiction: Childbirth is a major risk factor for urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, and decreased sexual sensation. In fact, giving birth is a major reason that women are twice as likely to suffer from urinary incontinence as men. Despite recent controversy over the subject, studies indicate that the method of delivery–vaginal versus Caesarian–has little effect on whether a mother will have urine leakage symptoms post-partum.

5. A woman will know if she has poor pelvic health.

Fiction: Research indicates that between 43 and 76 percent of women have some degree of pelvic organ prolapse (in which one or more pelvic organs have “fallen” out of position). At the same time, many of these women are not aware that they have this condition because they have no apparent symptoms. Some women may experience symptoms of prolapse, such as low back pain or chronic constipation, but not know the cause. Similarly, many women with naturally weak pelvic floor muscles, another form of poor pelvic health, may not be aware that they are not having the best possible sexual experience.

6. Most women can benefit from doing a pelvic floor muscle exercise program.

Fact: Pelvic floor muscles are like any other muscle in the body: they benefit from regular exercise. Because pelvic muscles are not visible, most women tend to forget about exercising them, even if they have engaged in a pelvic muscle exercise program in the past. The phrase “Out of sight, out of mind” is very applicable to pelvic floor muscles, as is the phrase, “Use ’em or lose ’em!” (especially after menopause). Women who should not start a pelvic muscle exercise program on their own include women who are under a physician’s care for a medical condition, women who have hyper-toned pelvic muscles, or women whose pelvic floor muscles are too weak to do a proper Kegel-type contraction. If you are not sure whether you should proceed with a self-guided program, check in with your doctor first and seek help from a physical therapist specializing in women’s pelvic health.

7. Surgeries to alleviate symptoms of poor pelvic health conditions are risky.

Fiction: While all surgery carries a certain amount of risk, most surgical procedures for urinary incontinence (the most common form of poor pelvic health) are minimally-invasive, low-risk, and can be done on an outpatient basis. Surgeries for pelvic organ prolapse and some forms of urinary incontinence can be more complex, but have a high rate of success and few complications. As with all types of surgery, you will get the most effective treatment by researching and finding the surgeon who best understands and can accommodate your needs. In addition, pelvic surgery, like conservative therapies, is more effective when performed sooner rather than later. This means that you should seek medical attention the moment you become aware that you may have one or more symptoms of poor pelvic health.

Elizabeth E. Houser, M.D., a board-certified urologist in private practice for many years, is now a consultant in the field of women’s pelvic health. Stephanie Riley Hahn, P.T. is a physical therapist specializing in women’s pelvic health. Their book, A Woman’s Guide to Pelvic Health: Expert Advice for Women of All Ages, is now available for pre-order from the JHU Press.

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Yes, Kegels DO Work When Done Correctly and Appropriately

Yeah, yeah … we’ve heard it all. Women tell us (a urologist and a physical therapist specializing in women’s pelvic health) that they do Kegels or other pelvic floor exercises to no avail. “Kegels don’t work” for women’s urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, or decreased sexual sensation. We hear that all the time.But Kegels do work, and research proves it.

What Research Shows About Kegels
Kegels and other pelvic floor exercises, when done correctly and appropriately, are an effective first line therapy for the conditions listed above. For instance, research shows the following statistics when women with the following conditions follow an appropriate pelvic floor exercise program:

  • Stress Urinary Incontinence: 73% cure rate; when paired with other conservative therapies (like medication) the rate goes up to 97%
  • Overactive Bladder or Urge Incontinence: reduced feeling of urgency; decreased number of leakage incidents and the need to urinate at night
  • Pelvic Organ Prolapse: less severe symptoms; can delay onset of prolapse; increase pelvic muscle strength
  • Decreased Sexual Sensation: decreased urinary leakage during sex; increased desire and orgasms in non-orgasmic women; post-partum women report increased sexual satisfaction
The research clearly shows that Kegels, or pelvic muscle exercise programs, do work. So what’s up with all the women saying that Kegels don’t work?What You May Not Know About Kegels
Pelvic exercise programs are like any other exercise program: they have to be done correctly and appropriately. What do we mean by “correctly and appropriately”?

Let’s start with the term “correct.” Did you know that 50% of women cannot do a correct pelvic floor muscle contraction following only written instructions? These women either engage the wrong muscles (such as the buttocks or thighs) or actually push their pelvic muscles down and out rather than pulling them upwards and inwards, which is correct. In this single statistic, we have half the female population unable to do a correct Kegel … so of course the exercise program is going to prove ineffective. The same result would happen if you did an incorrect lunge or squat at the gym. You  wouldn’t get the desired results, and you could even injure yourself.

Now let’s talk about the word “appropriate.” Some pelvic floor exercise programs have women doing as many as 200 Kegels, or contractions, per session, and up to three sessions per day. This is way too many contractions, and can lead to hyper-toning of the pelvic muscles. Hypertonic pelvic muscles can lead to pelvic pain and other pelvic floor issues. In addition, this number and frequency of contractions is usually not appropriate for the average woman’s level of pelvic floor muscle tone.

To be “appropriate,” a pelvic floor muscle exercise program has to first assess your current level of pelvic fitness, and then start you with a matching number of pelvic floor contractions for the appropriate length of time. Assuming that all women can do the same number of of Kegels for the same length of time is like assuming that all women are capable of successfully participating in a tri-athalon today. It’s just not true and it is just not going to happen. Some women will be able to do three sets of 10 contractions from the beginning, while other women may need to start with just three contractions of only four seconds length. The exercise program has to be appropriate to your current level of pelvic fitness.

How Kegels Can Work for You
If you want to successfully use Kegels or pelvic floor contractions to reduce symptoms of women’s urinary incontinence, pelvic organ prolapse, or decreased sexual sensation, start by assessing your pelvic floor strength. Learn how with our ebook, which not only gives you step-by-step instructions on how to do a correct pelvic floor contraction, but helps you troubleshoot potential problems. Then you will be on your way to success with Kegels and realize that, yes, they really DO work!

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